Back to schedules, so we all have people in our lives whether they are associates, friends, foe’s, colleagues family, or lovers.
When your on a rise people will always slyly dislike you, but you do better for you, not for anyone else. Example, I went out and invested in myself. I got a new hair-do, bought some new stylish clothes for the winter at work and developed an “I can do anything” attitude and reaffirmed my leadership qualities. I turn up to work and someone who does not tend to make much of an effort at anything (including her job role) feels she had the expertise and experience to comment on my look?
“You look all glamorous”… now stop right there… glamorous?
I’m at work, this is not a dinner party or the red carpet. It would take a lot more time and money to make myself look remotely glamorous considering I am working in a school and not at one of my live shows performing as a Celebrity.
“Why can’t you just throw on a t-shirt or look scrappy like me?”
Bingo so your low self esteem ass feels like a “Raggedy Ann” and so therefor you want me to look like one? I could never be further from that!
Jeez, probably the reason why as much as you would like to be recognized for your low efforts and negative manners towards others, it is probably the reason you do not get asked to do anything or given any responsibility outside of your “job description”.
Facebook- the value of friends and what they mean to people.
To be your friend all you got to do these days is add a person on Facebook and there you go! An instant friend, ha! But often you never even communicate.
A lot of the time people use it to network but at times don’t even do that affectively.
Friends, there are many different kinds and levels of friendships. The friends that you meet at school and grow up with and then grow apart (school friends), they’re the friends that are there for the meantime (meantime friends), the bff’s (Best Friend for life), they’re the ones you know, that no matter what, they’re gonna be there, you may not see them everyday but they will be a part of your life, they’ll know your family, know your deepest secrets, your worst fears (sometimes) and the friends that you meet along the way of your life journey (medium friends).
The school friend will be the one who you get into trouble with, talk or play on the playground with, go round each others houses but then when push comes to shove, we all gotta grow up sometime right? So Schools out and unless there was a genuine connection and common ground other than the fact that we are all at school and gotta learn. Then you move on and wish each other the best and sometimes even hope to never see ‘em again but then came along Facebook lol damn!
Same goes I suppose with relationships too, except there’s that slight differing title, Old Love, New Love, Endless everlasting Love and Never ever actually Loved you Love.
The thing is, I have for the most part experienced many kinds of these friendships and love and never really quite understood until now, why I was just not getting it?
My ideals were all wrong and expectations of what a “Friend” truly looks or acts like. I thought that a friend was somebody that you made and stayed a friend with for the rest of your life, the one you call up when your in trouble or in need of help and they say “I’ll be right there”. However it is actually the experience of people and different people under different circumstances who act in different ways, also depending on the type of friendship, will vary the experience.
Same goes for Love, sometimes Love is there to teach you a lesson, to put a spring in your step or purely for a momentarily experience, not always a life time or not even love at all. You can grow with that person and stay together or you can grow with that person and then move on when the growth span no longer connects in the same way. Whichever Love or Friend you have, if you could sum it up in one, and take just one thing from it; take the best moment you ever had and cherish that!
I’m back on the radio this week Friday coming guys long break away I wonder if I still got it, (naaa I know I still do and have what it takes), I’m so looking forward to it and got a lot more new artist’s music to play. So lock in this Friday to the SRT Show on Kbit radio.com from the hour of 9.30pm UK time 4pm US time.
Holler atcha girl Double R in the chatroom let me know what’s good with you.
Till then Mucho Love